Ezekiel 22:30God looks for a man to stand in the gap before Him so that the land through this man might be saved. We know this. We know this is talking about interceeding for people, to pray for their needs to be met. We know that Jesus is the chief intercessor, making prayers on behalf of us everyday.
So I sought for a man among them who would make a wall, and stand in the gap before Me on behalf of the land, that I should not destroy it; but I found no one.
But today I learn something more.
Philemon 1:8-16Paul wrote an epistles to Philemon to ask him to accept Onesimus. Onesimus was a slave to Philemon that ran away. Though it is not recorded in the bible of why Onesimus came to Paul in prison, but we do know that he got saved while Paul is "in my chains". And Paul later pleaded with Philemon to accept him as a fellow minister of the gospel, to let him go back to his house.
Therefore, though I might be very bold in Christ to command you what is fitting, yet for love’s sake I rather appealto you—being such a one as Paul, the aged, and now also a prisoner of Jesus Christ— I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, whom I have begotten while in my chains, who once was unprofitable to you, but now is profitable to you and to me.
I am sending him back. You therefore receive him, that is, my own heart, whom I wished to keep with me, that on your behalf he might minister to me in my chains for the gospel. But without your consent I wanted to do nothing, that your good deed might not be by compulsion, as it were, but voluntary.
For perhaps he departed for a while for this purpose, that you might receive him forever, no longer as a slave but more than a slave—a beloved brother, especially to me but how much more to you, both in the flesh and in the Lord.
Paul stood in the gap between him and Phillemon so that Philemon will accept him back into his house. Paul could have let Onesimus just go back to his master's house without the letter, or treat him like how a slave is to be treated. But Paul did not. Paul chose to tell him about Jesus and led him to Christ. Paul did something that most Christians would do, to win the lost.
But there is more to just winning the lost. When we all got saved, when we enter into church and we see people that we offended before serving in the same church as we are now, what would we feel? what would we do? Paul accepted Onesimus just as he is, but would Philemon his master accept him of what he had done? Onesimus had offended Philemon by running away from him. He probably gave him a lot of problems when Onesimus disappeared overnight. There could have been a lot of things to do on the next day, and Onesimus ran away from duty. Or it could be Onesimus committed a serious offense against his master and he got scared and ran away.
Whichever case it is, Philemon had the right to reject him from coming into his house. Philemon had the right to reject Onesimus from coming back into his life. We all have the right to reject people from coming back into our lives. We can choose our friends, choose who we want to hang out with, and of course choose who we don't want to associated with. Philemon had this choice as well for what Onesimus had done. Similarly we too have some issues with people that we can forgive. We say we forgive them. But do we accept them? Can we accept them now that they are saved or do we say "how can God let this kind of person come into church?" Or can we accept them after they apologised for what they have done?
Can Philemon accept Onesimus after what he has done? We don't know what he is feeling as Paul is writting this letter, but we do know how it feels like. We all have seen the one who offended us before. And for some of us there is this anger bubbling up from within. For some of us, immediately the day is ruined just at the sight of that man.
Then Paul wrote:
Philemon 1:17
If then you count me as a partner, receive him as you would me.
Paul wrote that if Philemon counts Paul as a fellow laborer to preach the gospel, receive Onesimus, as he would receive him. Paul had accepted Onesimus for who he is, and he is asking Philemon to share the same view of this man as he is.
Matthew 5:23-24
Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.
Reconcile means to restore to friendship or harmony, to make agreement, to cause to submit to or accept something unpleasant
Reconciling means to restore the friendship, come to an agreement and accept the unpleasant experiences. Jesus accepted Peter after Peter had denied him 3 times, once even cursed at His name. Jesus accepted Thomas even though after so many things he has heard that Jesus is resurrected, even though he has seen Jesus came to them while they were in a locked room, he doubted. Jesus accepted a criminal on as they hang on the cross. This criminal could have did something that clearly violated the laws of God, hence he is punished by death. And Jesus accepted him when he repented.
Jesus stood in the gap on behalf of us while we were still sinners, to die for our sins so that through the works of the cross we may receive salvation. And Jesus stood in the gap for all man, no matter what they have done. And Jesus accepted them all.
Reconciling means to restore the friendship, come to an agreement and accept the unpleasant experiences. Jesus accepted Peter after Peter had denied him 3 times, once even cursed at His name. Jesus accepted Thomas even though after so many things he has heard that Jesus is resurrected, even though he has seen Jesus came to them while they were in a locked room, he doubted. Jesus accepted a criminal on as they hang on the cross. This criminal could have did something that clearly violated the laws of God, hence he is punished by death. And Jesus accepted him when he repented.
Jesus stood in the gap on behalf of us while we were still sinners, to die for our sins so that through the works of the cross we may receive salvation. And Jesus stood in the gap for all man, no matter what they have done. And Jesus accepted them all.
Luke 23:43If the Pharisees had repented, would Jesus accept them? "Yes He would", we will say. But would you accept the ones that had wronged you? If today Paul writes this letter to you instead of Philemon for someone that have offended you before, for someone who had done something so wrong to you that it probably ruined your future, what would you do when you see that person again? What would you feel when you see that man/woman again? What will bubble out of you when you see the offender in church serving as an usher today?
And Jesus said to him, “Assuredly, I say to you, today you will be with Me in Paradise.”